Some time ago I spent several years intensely researching how communication works, to the minutest detail, in everyday settings. Before d...

What makes the temptation of power so seemingly irresistible? Maybe it is that power offers an easy substitute for the hard task of love.

In my counselling practice, by far the most common presenting problem for couples I work with is their struggle with communication.  Thes...

...what about the other half of communication -- that pesky and complicated work of understanding others accurately?

Everyone is talking about Mindfulness these days. It seems that everywhere I turn, someone is lauding the benefits of Mindfulness toward w...

My deep belief, professional experience, and recent research confirms that any movement towards true health in loving relationships comes...

When I tell people what I do for a living, many people ask me how I can stand to hear so many heartbreaking stories of failed relationshi...

Battling it out in a good fight may not be the first thing that comes to mind for building meaningful connection with your spouse or sign...